Or mechanical box

No, just games related to cars make it possible to teach what adults teach in driving schools since childhood. These are signs and gear shift. For example, in computer games there is an automatic or mechanical box mode. Most play on the «machine». And you buy children and pedals to the computer and try to play with mechanics. These are other sensations as close as possible to real driving. Plus teach to ride carefully, but do not deprive the opportunity to accelerate in the game to 300 kilometers per hour or crashing into an opponent. Just explain that this can only be done in games.