Your family

Efforts associated with how to change fate should be reduced to attempts to recall significant events from childhood. All the words that we said at an early age also rooted somewhere deeply and affect our lives. If parents repeated that life is a difficult thing where betrayal, resentment and grief awaited, then perhaps it will be so. Your family, of course, did not want to do anything bad. It is just such such sayings are remembered by children, and the script becomes such that your actions unconsciously lead to such a turn that parents repeated about.