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There are two ways in such a situation. The first is to continue to suffer, reveling in your own grief, and waiting for the next nightmare, in which by listening to the negotiations, you will hear, for example, as a native voice confidentially informs your new chosen one about your frigidity. And it is unlikely that you, crowded with a feeling of universal injustice, will be able to fall asleep after that again. And the second way is to try to figure it out on your own, calling for a sober mind to help, and even try to benefit from it. By the way, in severe cases, do not hesitate to contact a psychologist. If for you this situation seems out of the ordinary, then for him this is a typical standard case and it can help you make the right decision.