What prevents men from seducing a girl?

I think each of the men, regardless of age and position, would like to be able to seduce girls. Moreover, it is desirable that this process is spent as little as possible. In fact, in order to please a woman and transfer communication into another plane, it is not at all necessary to be tanned, fashionable handsome with millions of accounts. Just know how to seduce girls correctly? And do not make popular mistakes.