Make you surprise
As a rule, men do not want to spend big money on unfamiliar women. But, if the savings of money can still be somehow justified, then the unwillingness to spend time and efforts on girls, nothing will justify. After all, how can you seduce a girl if you do not even want to reduce her on a date or see you again? Even if you have a lot of common topics, you still have to try to make you surprise and interest the subject of your lust. Often the first impression and opinion about a person is very difficult to change, so during the first meetings try to look neat and clean and look for what unites you. Strongly repels women and elementary laziness. Men have no desire to strain and come up with jokes, interesting stories, they are just too lazy to do it.